Not knowing can invoke fear and panic – sometimes to the point of paralyzing you from making a decision on what to do next.  You become stuck. 

Ask yourself these two questions:

1.  What do you want?

2.  What is the immediate problem that prevents you from getting what you want?

Get unstuck and find a way through.   Explore choices, options, and what-if scenarios.  Brainstorm with friends, colleagues, and confidants.

GoGet yourself a mentor, a coach, and a personal advisory group.  Your mentor will help show you the “way”, your coach will give you objective no-nonsense feedback and guidance, and your personal advisers will share their knowledge and expertise with you.  And, remember – - your advisers can pull strings for you if necessary – after all, they want to see you succeed, too!

But, everything starts with you.  Getting unstuck is not a science, it’s an art.  It relies on gumption, gut instinct, and a willingness to move on.  Nothing changes until you take the first step – - your best resource is YOU!

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